angela and i...

someone asked us: how do u know u both r meant for each other?

herhg.. it's really a long long answer...
but we'll try to keep it short...

1st, what is not.... ??
well, we r meant for each other NOT because...
- we never quarrel... coz we do
- we look alike... coz we don't
- same hobbies... coz we don't
- same taste bud... coz sometimes we do
- same thinkin... impossible, she's sheila, me a bloke... how to hv same thinking?
- same education level... coz we do
- same calling... quite hard to say now, coz we are still exploring
- same giftings... coz we don't
- seems to be suitable for each other... coz we do


2nd, what it is...
we r meant for each other BECAUSE...
- we have the same faith... we both believe in Jesus and so therefore whatever situation we are in, Jesus will always be our focus and because of Him we r both willing to submit to one another.
- we are work on it... we both know that no relationship can work out on its own, even the most suitable couple need to work hard.
- we never give up... one of the 'rules' is, never turn to 'separation'/'divorce'. God put us together and He will help us, so never give up
- we give each other chances... no one is perfect and we all need room for mistakes, hence, improvement
- we forgive each other... again, no one can never free from mistakes, give and take, that's all

3rd, God is...
the one who put us together as we read our marriage vow/covenant, we declare it in the name of Jesus so, we are meant for each other coz God put us together... (",)

so, have we answered ur question?