Saturday, July 12, 2008

take her hand...

the other day someone asked me...

"What are the main characteristics a man should possess before asking for the girl's hand?"
This is what i replied...

wat it takes to ask for a girl's hand...

well, r u ready to pour yourself out like a drink that offer to the love one?
it means totally being consumed, committed to it no matter what.


Bible tells us that man, love his wife; woman, obey her husband.. Bible also tells us that husband must love the wife juz as Christ did... so, Christ 1st love the church then the church response in obedience.. even when the church is not ready to obey, Christ still love..

CONCLUSION...

love her no matter what,
accept all her weaknesses,
cherish her even she is not outwardly attractive anymore..
once an old man said "love is blind, marriage is the eye opener"
ha, that's very true. So...after so much, do u still wanna get married? OF COURSE!
because to get married is far better, its benefits outweighs the costs..
ONLY if u r ready to face the challenge..
but dun be afraid coz God said "His grace is sufficient" so in all situations, He's able to help


wat u think? u think is good enuf? comment?

3 comments:

Victor said...

i just think that, i'm not ready to put myself in that kind of commitment. or maybe i haven't met someone that compels me into this.

heh.

::sklc:: said...

victor, i think it is the latter...

Victor said...

someoooone, over the rainbow..